When I was a new member I wasn't happy the way I was treated. On a certain occassion my guests and I were humiliated. I then kicked up a massive row (not in public the way some people have tried and made asses of themselves). In wrote strong letters to the comittee expressing my displeasure. I discussed the matter in a civil way with some of the other senior members.
Before I knew it the then Prez was on "Machan" terms with me . He made a reluctant appology, somewhat disguised as well
But from, that time we (the young crowd) were treated well! Of course we constantly give feedback to the higher-ups we are close with....